You didn't lose the love of your life - you've lost the parasite that was sucking the life out of you. Narcissists are not soulmates; they are predators in disguise, and understanding this is crucial for your healing. The person you saw at the end of a relationship is who they really are.

Their true nature was hidden behind a facade of charm, charisma and manipulation. They lured you in with false promises, false emotions and convincing games. But underneath it all, they fed on your emotional energy, undermining your self-esteem and destroying your sense of self-worth.

What you experienced wasn't love; it was a toxic cycle of violence where every day felt like a battle for survival. Their gaslighting, emotional blackmail, and constant criticism were not signs of affection; they were instruments of control and dominance. Their unfaithfulness, deceit, and lack of empathy were not just mistakes; they were deliberate actions to exploit your vulnerabilities.

You didn't lose the person you loved - you escaped a toxic nightmare. You have broken out of the cycle of violence, and it takes incredible courage, strength and resilience. Narcissists are incapable of true love; they only imitate it to get what they want.

In order to heal, you have to accept the truth: you were not loved, you were used. You were a supply, a means of achievement and a pawn in their manipulative game. But now you are free to rediscover yourself, embrace true love and live a life filled with meaning, joy, and authenticity.

You are deserving of real love, genuine connection and healthy relationships. You deserve to be seen, heard and understood. You deserve to be appreciated, respected, and cherished. Never settle for less. You are worthy of love and it will find you when you least expect it

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